Domestic violence in Alabama has no excuse. Yet 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men experience partner abuse. (Alabama Coalition Against Domestic Violence).
Domestic violence and abuse takes many different forms. While physical violence might be the most obvious, emotional violence can be just as dangerous. Domestic abuse looks like physical harm, emotional manipulation, or financial control.
With more than 24 years of legal experience, this is what we’ve learned while handling domestic abuse cases.
How to Recognize the Signs of Abuse
Many survivors don’t recognize danger until it’s too late. While physical abuse may be more visible, other forms can be equally damaging. Our domestic violence attorneys have handled claims with emotional, psychological, or financial abuse.
Some common signs that you or someone you know may be experiencing domestic violence include the following.
1. Unexplained Injuries
Victims of domestic violence often have frequent “accidents”. You may dismiss bruises, cuts, or other injuries as clumsiness. However, they’re often signs of physical abuse.
2. Isolation from Friends and Family
Abusers try to control who their partner interacts with. By cutting you off from your support systems, they make you feel alone.
3. Extreme Jealousy or Controlling Behaviors
If your partner monitors your phone, social media, or interactions, then that is a red flag. They are restricting your freedom and autonomy.
SAFETY WARNING
If you are afraid your internet usage is being monitored, please use a safe computer or call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.
4. Limited Access to Finances
You may have limited access to your finances. Or, your partner grants you an “allowance” from your rightfully earned money.
5. Fear or Anxiety Around Their Partner
If you are fearful or anxious around your partner, then something may be wrong. You should feel safe in your relationship
6. Frequent Absences
You may frequently miss job shifts, school, or social events. You might be too hurt to attend, or your partner convinced you to stay inside.
7. Sexual Assault
A relationship is not automatic consent. If a partner forced you into a sexual encounter, then that is assault. You should seek legal guidance immediately.
Signs of domestic violence may be subtle, but they’re always serious. Domestic violence tends to escalate over time. It is also vastly underreported.
If you recognize any of these signs, it is important to seek help immediately.
Obtaining a Protection Order For Domestic Violence in Alabama
If you recognize any of the above signs in your relationship, then you may need legal support. You should consider a restraining or protection order. This order is important for individuals facing domestic violence, providing essential safety and legal recourse.
In Alabama, there are several types of protection orders. For example, the Emergency Protection Order (EPO) offers immediate and short-term protection for up to 14 days. The Ex Parte Protection Order, grants similar relief until a full court hearing occurs.
You may need a restraining order for a longer period. For long-term needs, a Final Protection Order can last up to a year and is renewable. It often includes child support and custody, financial support, and other critical aspects.
What to Do Next
No words explain the severity and unfairness of domestic violence.
If you are currently experiencing abuse, you should know that it is not your fault. Reaching out for help is terrifying, but it’s the most important decision you make. Reclaim your life with the right resources, including legal support and a safety plan.
Why You Should Pursue a Civil Lawsuit for Domestic Abuse
Navigating the court system is complex, especially distinguishing between criminal and civil proceedings. While the state handles criminal charges, we handle the civil side. By filing a personal injury claim against an abuser, we can help you recover:
- Medical expenses for past and future treatment of physical injuries.
- Mental health support to cover the costs of long-term counseling and trauma therapy.
- Lost wages if the abuse caused you to miss work or lose your job.
- Punitive damages to financially punish the abuser for their willful and malicious actions.
At Alexander Shunnarah Trial Attorneys, we don’t just provide legal advice. We offer a powerhouse of support to help you break the cycle. We handle your case with the utmost privacy while fighting fiercely to secure your future.
Resources for Victims and Survivors
Healing from the trauma of domestic violence often requires professional counseling and support. Resources exist in Birmingham and throughout Alabama. They can offer safety, legal protection, and long-term recovery.
Many organizations offer individual and group therapy sessions. For example, Legal Services Alabama offers free or low-cost legal assistance to survivors like you.
Safety Plan
Your safety is important. Even if you’re not ready to leave the situation, developing a safety plan is crucial. And, if you are in danger, call 911 without hesitation. Law enforcement can intervene to protect you and remove you from harm’s way.
Here’s how to build your safety plan.
Teach your children how to call 911 and what to do in an emergency
Identify safe places, like trusted friends, family members, or domestic violence shelters
Prepare an emergency bag with essential items like clothes, medications, and important documents
Establish a code word to alert trusted individuals if you need help
Make copies of important documents (like birth certificates or financial records), and keep them in a safe place
If you have pets, consider whether they can go with you, or who can care for them in an emergency
Hotlines and Other Resources
Resources are always available in Birmingham and across the state. Shelters provide safe havens for you and your children. They offer temporary housing, meals, counseling, and advocacy services. Organizations, like YWCA Central Alabama, provide comprehensive support, including emergency shelter, legal assistance, and counseling.
National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
Alabama Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-650-6522
